tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7776004322644714661.post7389751225622978978..comments2023-05-21T09:46:36.566-04:00Comments on A Blob of Something Different: Pleading My CaseSomething Differenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17225114844104235510noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7776004322644714661.post-47750513572112036752011-05-23T21:08:43.292-04:002011-05-23T21:08:43.292-04:00What? No! I totally agree with ABoSD. I meet these...What? No! I totally agree with ABoSD. I meet these kind of people all the time. I was in a supermarket doing some shopping last week and I asked a woman in identifying an item that I was unfamiliar with. She answered the question, asked where I'm from and said I have a girl for you. Then she tells me she dabbles in shidduchim. Then. She. Tells. Me. She. Dabbles. In. Shidduchim. G-d save the people she deals with if that's how she operates!<br /><br />It's happened to me with shadchanim, wannabe shadchanim, dying-to-be shadchanim and people who see that I'm male, smile and am willing to help a person in need.<br /><br />Seriously, if a person knows what they want, and the person being described is NOT what they're looking for, why should they give them the time of day?%Shocked%https://www.blogger.com/profile/08017279590797608442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7776004322644714661.post-48855711224066537152011-05-15T22:20:01.791-04:002011-05-15T22:20:01.791-04:00Yes, I agree, i don't know details, but person...Yes, I agree, i don't know details, but personality and middos, shouldv'e been more of a turn-off for you than a good working boy with right hashkafus. (if the lawyer mentioned any) <br /><br />You tend to think that people that don't know you well, or will NEVER be the one to find you someone.. and only that someone that knows you for a while can even start thinking of the "right one"... but "blobby" in shidduchim Hashem is in charge... and even when she knows you only for a half hour... you never know .. who might be the one to know the one for YOU!! <br /><br />From reading all your previous posts you sound very defensive to all people who suggest something... as if you want to tell them "you don't know me... " you want to scream "I'M SOMETHING DIFFERENT" .. "how can you really know me and find me someone..." truth is... the one that's is perfect for YOU will probably come from one of those people that so don't appreciate the awesome you... but happen to randomly have a 3rd cousin they would like to marry off!! <br /><br />Let the defense down, listen with all ears to ALL suggestions.. and HEY you never know!!<br /><br />Cant wait to share in the news!!<br />An avid reader<br />:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7776004322644714661.post-58490245456207256392011-05-14T23:27:45.215-04:002011-05-14T23:27:45.215-04:00that was written very well blobby though i dont se...that was written very well blobby though i dont see why you shouldnt have given the guy atleast the slightest amount of thought before shutting him down.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7776004322644714661.post-20007799720011146482011-05-10T13:10:14.488-04:002011-05-10T13:10:14.488-04:00If the person talking to you was an attorney, the ...If the person talking to you was an attorney, the person is not a good one. Always know your audience...lawschooldrunkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06981455538460795016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7776004322644714661.post-60386073740779034432011-05-09T20:22:29.643-04:002011-05-09T20:22:29.643-04:00Wait, you really only want someone who's learn...Wait, you really only want someone who's learning?QEDnoreply@blogger.com