Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Reaching a Verdict

Normally, when cracking eggs, I check them as I crack them- directly into the bowl. Tonight, for some inexplicable reason, I cracked the eggs into a separate bowl, then poured them into the rest of the ingredients. As it turns out, its a good thing I did it that way. The (would be) final egg actually had a blood spot. "No problem," I thought to myself, "I'll toss this one and crack another."

And while this may not seem all that philosophical, it got me thinking. I usually don't crack eggs into a separate bowl, simply because I don't actually expect there to be a blood spot. It's the kind  of thing that I take for granted. Sure, it can happen, but what are the chances?

I think that's the way I feel going into Rosh Hashana. Sure, we say "mi yichye umi yamus" but I'm not actually going to die, am I? And sure, we say "who will be impoverished and who will be enriched." But c'mon, I'm not going to become impoverished this year! I'm sure my friend's mother who was niftar suddenly this past year felt a similar way last year. And I am sure that the neighbor who lost his job really didn't think it would happen to him, either. But that's what Rosh Hashana is. We may be healthy, but this Yom Hadin we face a new judgement. We need to beg for that health again.

At the risk of sounding like I am employing a scare tactic, there is a flip side.I watch my friend who just got engaged. I know she had a rough year, shidduchim wise. The last of her single friends got married a couple of months ago, as did mine. I guess that is what brought two completely different coworkers together. But now, standing at her vort, watching her collect mazel tovs, I marvel at the amazing way it all played out. Her engagement was decided on...last year on rosh hashana! And all the while,she waited for him to come along, and he came, as planned, on erev rosh hashana. And all of this is such an important reminder for me. As I face the Heavenly courts this Rosh Hashana, the fate of an  entire year is at stake.

And as I wait for some verdicts down here, I realize that the verdict hasn't come in yet up there. One particular bit of news that I have been waiting to hear has dragged and dragged. At first, I wondered why, but now, I think I understand. It dragged because the decision wasn't made last year. Now, waiting precariously close to the yom hadin, I know to daven for it. I know to daven hard. I know that a decision is hanging in the balance.

In less than 24 hours I will have my day in court. I think I really need to rethink my defense now. And just in case, I'll be checking my eggs into a separate bowl from now on.

Wishing all of you a kesivah v'chasima tova, and a simchadik year.

(I really really hope this post makes sense. It does in my head, but I'm a little woozy from two straight nights of cooking and baking until after two in the morning. On a positive note, I have just baked  challah by myself for the first time in my life! Yay for me, call the shadchan!)


G6 said...

K'siva V'Chasima Tova.
May Hashem answer all our tefillos for the good.

Soul Comfort said...

thanks for this post. i needed it.

Brochi said...

That is very beautiful..... the message stayed with me when I made my son a scrambled eggs. And Gut Gebenched Yuhr.

Bookworm said...

One's behavior throughout the year can change the verdict too. One is judged as they are, but if they become better, or worse people during the year, then the judgment can become better, or worse, as well.

Devorah said...

Wow, that was really good. Thanks!
It's so good to remember that this day is so big and so important!

May this year bring loads of bracha and happy things to everyone!

Rachelli Dreyfuss said...

IYH we should all be judged for good.
Kesiva V'Chasima Tova!

still waiting said...

definitely made sense and was a much needed reminder.

still waiting said...

made a lot of sense and was a much needed reminder!

MerryMoroseandMiredMusings said...

It was a great post!
I feel the same way about R"H. I thought I was the only one getting the blues but apparantly it is quite a common occurence as I am seeing from the blogosphere.

It is true what you pointed out. We can look at the good or the bad in every situation.

For all we know, he may just be on his way...